How do i know if i will make the right choice?
I am here in Germany as an Au Pair.I talked to my mother today and she said that i should come home back to South Africa.The thing is i have only been here for 3 months and i had to give out alot of money to get here.I still have about 9months to stay here but half of my family sais thzat i must cme home they miss me so much and so on and so on.What sould i do .I would realy love to stay here still.
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you should stay in germany. part of growing up and enjoying new experiences. and besides, eventually, you have to grow up....enjoy deutschland and have fun...earn some money too! the rand is getting toooooo expensive!!
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then stay. wait until you have enough money to travel back home. of course they miss you, like any good family would. you'll see them soon. trust me. happened to me.
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Go with your instincts. You must be an adult and adults make choices on their own. What is your intuitions telling you. Learn a new culture, who knows, you might end up meeting a handsome and sweet gentleman to sweep you off your feet. Take your chances.
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don't let your mother guilt you into being a child again. She needs to find something else to take up her time. In the states it's called "empty nest syndrome"--when the little birdies fly off to be their own birds.
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Stay where you are, you can't live your life for your family. It's not like you've left home for good. You want to see a bit of the world and experience different things. Tell your family not to worry about you and have a good time.
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You should do what your heart tells you to do. Don't listen to what other people might push you to do. Do what you feel is right. And do what you want, that's the most important thing. Your family will understand your decision.
