Everyone has a breaking point right?
im 15 and i feel like im at my breaking point! Everyone knows me as the nice girl that will do anything for anybody. I love helping people out nd i have a great heart but i just feel so stressed and taken advantage of. I have to go to school, and keep my grades up. To me, those are my top priorities right now. But, its hard when my parents expect me to babysit all the time. I feel so overworked. And, when i get out of college, i want to move to South Africa and help out the poor families there and then come back to America and be a pediatrician. But, my mom doesnt even have a college savings account for me. Im not mad at her for that but now that im 15, i have realized that i really need to start saving money for my future. But, whenever i make money my mom asks for some and i give it to her. I would feel bad if i didnt because she is a working woman and has bills to pay and it would bother me mentally knowing that i have money saved for myelf know that my mom was in need of some. Lets just put it like this, with the money that i have gotten from babysitting and other little jobs, i would have probably close to 600 dollars. And in the long run, its going to hurt me when i get out of high school and cant fufill my life dreams because of lack of money. I have to go to school, maintain good grdes, stay healthy, work, babysit my siblings, keep up on my chores, and continue to be the nice, loving, caring, whitney i just really hard for me! It just makes me want to break down and cry but i cant because i feel like i have to stay strong. I just wish there was someone i could pour out all of my feelings to, but i jut cant! Im sorry this is so long, but if you have any suggestions for me, then please tell me! And, i have another question, im not in any sports or anything in school. So, i k now i cant get a sport or activity scholorship. But, i get all A's, do they give out scholorships for good grades?
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apply for finaicial aid and atleast be apart of a couple clubs when in highschool. and yes you can get scholorships even if youre not in sports.
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As a Psychologist I can tell you that your grades are good enough for you to qualify for a scholarship. If you really want to be a Dr. then go for it. I went into the Army to pay for my education because I really wanted to help people and today I'm doing it. Please don't expect your Mother to do something she cannot, if you want this bad enough you will do it. I wish you the best. Peace, Love & Happiness
