My boyfriend is going to spain for 6 months to work as an entertainer?
We have been together for 4 years and he has been working as a cab driver for the past few months. He is not making much money and now the opportunity has come up for hims to go work in Spain for 6 to 9 months. I live in Cape Town South Africa and Spain is miles away. We see each other every second day, but now that he is leaving we won't see each other at all. He never discussed it with me about how I might feel. We weren't talking at the time due to an argument we had, so the agents contacted him during that time and afterwards I only found out that he will be leaving me behind. I can't get myself to forgive him that easily even though we are back together after our tiff, we always seem to argue because I cannot believe that he did not think that I was important enough to tell me that he intends on leaving, before I knew it he had signed the final contract, so there is no turning back. I have always supported him with everything all his jobs working away for 2 months before atleast just 1province away not thousands of miles and when he went away to further his studies. This time I don't know what to do. He just says, please support me, and I just find it difficult so hard to do, because he took my feelings for granted and hurt me terribly.
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well even though you guys were in a little bit of an argument, i thnk he still should have talked to you about his leaving if you still want to keep him, then sit him down and tell him how you feel leaving for six month is something big and i think he should have told you about it so talk to him from my personal experiences, when there was something wrong with my boyfriend, and im worried, ill just tell him straight out. when he explaines everything to me and tell me that im over reacting and tell me why and everything, it feels much better and maybe youll understand your boyfriend like i understood mine
2 :
Spain is a fantastic country, he'll have a great time. (However, you may find the answer you were hoping for if you post it in a different section ?)
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This is NOT a question about travel in Spain. You really should post this in relationships. The locations aren't important, the issue is that he is leaving you behind without having discussed an international move. Sounds like he's ready to move on. I'd cut my losses, and start getting used to not having him around. Ever. Sounds kinda like a jerk to me, anyway. I wouldn't have been with him that long in the first place.
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HEY TRACY IM A CAPE-TOWNIAN living in spain He sounds like a jerk... and spain is tooooooo outgoing for guys to stay faithful if its a long term relationship , when i first came here i felt sooo ugly coz the girls here are natural beauties and beauty is putting it lightly ,,, i think hes being egoistic ..... full of himself in that matter , get rid of him and get a new guy ... if you wanna talk more add me or something
