I've been married for 4yrs and i'm still struggling to make my marriage works?
I'm 25 years old my Husband is 38 years old, we've been having problems eversince we married,the problem is he don't want to be told sometimes i think it's because he is older than me but for me it's not a problem.I got married when i was 21 i was excited and happy after then when we move to U.K .The problem STARTED because of his ex-girlfriend the've got the baby together before me so the girl use to call him anytime of the day and then i complained cause we are married now. We keep on fighting until Jan. this year he sent me home with my two kids,he didn't provide house for us apart fom maintainance of the , he didn't gave any cent i was strugling at home South Africa I WAS LIVING AT HOME WITH OUR KIDZ.By September i called my Friend at Manchester to borrow me money to buy tickects so that i'll come back to U.K. cause i was working, my friend borrowed me money i'm working now at U.k but the Problem is he only pay money for the KIDZ if he likes if i call him concerning the kids he don't answer calls the problem is the 2 year old is not feeling well ever since she was born shes got eye problems i told him about that when i was still at home he said'i don't have money'so i want to know in this situation what i need to do .the last time i saw him was11 Jan. this year i don't know what's going on cause he keepon saying i'm not going to Dirvoce you but i'm confussed cause he's not talking to me.
Marriage & Divorce - 3 Answers
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Im sorry to say but I think he is seeing his ex....You need to file divorce dont just stay for the kids excuse....You will met someone who will value you and your children.
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Maybe it's time for a divorce? I know it's hard but it sounds like your pretty much doing it all on your own anyway.
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You need to get a divorce. Bottom line.
