What do you make of this?
I know this a long time ago but I am thinking about this more recently. My grandmother died of breast cancer in 1997 when I was only 7. A tennant/partner who she met in south africa in 1991 lived with her up untill her death (his ex wife apprently died falling through a window). The lodgers son was also a drug addict who tried to steal money from my grandmother to fuel his addicction. Anyway more to the point when my grandmother died the tennant wanted to stay put in the house which infuriated my uncles who were her children and its understandable and according to my dad on the morning of my grandmas funeral all of the tennants family were in my grandmothers house. Also the tennant just sat back and didn't even bother to comfort my dying grandmother when she was ill and was looked after by nurses in her home. I think eventually we managed to get the tennant out of the house. What is weird though is at my uncles wedding a few months later believe it or not my family invited the tennant and he started crying at he wedding about my grandmothers death. The tennant died in 2002 but do you think his intentions were good or bad? I would really appreciate some answers to this question. Thanks. It was only 5 months afer her death that he cried at the wedding.
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i think he meant well but he just didn't know how to show it,why else would he cry at a wedding about your grandmothers death years after it happened?
2 :
I guess he might have been in shock on ur grandmother's death and he just had a different way of mourning. Some people also are bad in taking care though they love but don't consider themselves good enough during stress full time. And may be he already had seen a lot in his life-like you said his wife had a tragic end and similarly his son was an addict.I think he was just a normal but sad person.
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Is difficult to say But I do not believe that the thing This one between thinking if is was good or to bad person But probably is that is was really confused Or has mistake doing things in his life.
