why are europeans so racist to immigrants when they loted and plundered non whites?
i mena, they're only rich because they stole and raped africa, south ameirca and asia. what right do they have to demand assimilation in their countriues? i mean, as long as immigratsnm learn their language, respect their laws, etcv, what right do they have to tell us to become "a part of their society?" I'm east indian buddhist and i want to live in westenrn maybe eastern europe for a while, make money, and move to new zea;and. but at the same time, when i live in euripe, i'll learn their languagem laws, etc, but i don't want to intermigle with europeans, i only want to marry other indian/nepalese buddhists, and want to hang around in my ethnic ghettos too. what's wrong in that? i think this is the best thing for me. why are you europeans against that? i think everyone should keep to their own kind, dont you? please some europeans tell me. i dare you to challenge me on this and tell me why you're against it when ou've had an ugly past and didn't assimilate with us during colonialism by the way, jews live in europe, and they dont often allow their kids to marry with non jews. if they can do it, then why shouldn't we asians/buddhsits/muslims? i wud never mary a european guy, never in my life. i'll respect euriopean culture, but never marry or becoemn fully part of it. what's wrong with multiculturalism? please i hope some europeans do tell me what they think of this. i challenge you! i dare you. why are europeans making all immigrants assimilate when it's mostly a muslim issue. why do us buddhsits also have to do the same because of them? also, jews are also clan like, so why not buddhists? we shud keep to ou own kind, no? i only want a nepali guy, not european. why are many europeans sayign i shud sdtay in my own country if i want that? i dont mind respecting their laws/customs, and talking and beoign nice to europeans, but the point it, why are they against people like me, who simultaneously want to stick to my own ghettos? who are they to tell me what to do? i dont mind being friends with europeans, but i still want to keep in my ethnic ghettos is that okaY? i dont want to assimilate in european society at all. they can't make m e!
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If you want to keep to your own kind, why don't you live in your own country India? That would be a perfect place for you to a) not have to learn the language, b) not have to learn the laws, and c) and automatically assimilate into the society. Marriage is a choice in most countries in the world, if you want to marry a indian/nepalese that's your prerogative. And frankly if you lived in India you probably wouldn't have a choice, it would have to be indian or nepalese AND your parents would have probably done an arranged marriage. I'm not saying it's wrong but if you are arguing for the freedom to chose who you want to marry, isn't that hypocritical? You obviously have no idea how economics or manufacturing occurs. Given a lot of the resources that Europe manufactures is from other countries (africa, south america, asia, etc) however realize that those are RAW MATERIALS and need to be manufactured into the usable materials we use now adays. If those countries you mentioned before had the capability or the technology to manufacture their own products they would not have to send it to Europe or the US. Lastly, it's extremely hypocritical for you to say how they are only rich because they raped other countries. You are now working there in Europe to get some of the very same money you see as being raped and pillaged off of other countries. What does that make you an accomplice to the very crime that you are complaining about? Yes. I don't think people should keep to their own kind, in fact that's completely a racist statement. We are all from the human race regardless of your slanted perspective on the matter. "You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. " Gandhi You are confusing two seperate issues, if you validate the fact that Jews do it to. First off not all Jews marry Jews. Second Jews are a minority in Europe. Lastly, I did challenge you and frankly I'm not impressed by your arguments they just prove you ignorance and the slanted racist perspective that you have. There's nothing wrong with multiculturalism within itself though realize institutionalized racism can be derived from that. Think South Africa and Apartheid being a perfect example. The most important thing about multiculturalism is the fact that they are seperate but EQUAL. As we've seen in history it's not always equal, and by seperating aka segregation you help reinforce the inequities. To finish it off marry who you want. I don't restrict myself on any race/nationality, love has no boundaries. However with that being said I know one thing for certain I may marry or date an Indian girl but it would never ever be you.
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Actually I think most people will agree with you (I am white if that counts for anything?) I noticed that you still believe you should learn the language and respect the laws of that country. Illegal immigrants do not do those things. That's why we want them out.
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The beneficiaries of Empire weren't the ordinary people of Europe who in many cases were mainly the cannon fodder of Empire. The ruling classes who exploited other peoples are the same ruling classes who are encouraging and enabling mass immigration. Once again it is happening at the long term expense of the poor of all countries- for the long term gain of the ruling elite. Immigration is in fact a continuation of imperialism in another guise.
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Why, if you have so much problems with european mentality, don´t you study and "make money" in your own country?
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Its precisely the fact that they don,t respect our laws and learn our language and integrate with the rest of society that some people have a problem with some immigrants If you think that people should keep to their own and not intermingle then maybe you should stay in eastern India. The fact that it didn't happen in 1874 or what ever is not the point, stop living in the past and become part of the global community, this means integration and acceptance.
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I agree with you, they are rich because they stole whole of african diamonds( If they had those diamonds - Africa will be the richest country in the world-there will be no civil war or poverty in Afcia) and ofcourse they stole whole of India(but they left some good things like railways,education etc). Some people say 'past is past' but I hate to see the same mentality of treating Asians as a secondary citizens.
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Making generalisations about an entire continent is a little harsh, verging on racism too, by the way. Not all Eropeans are racist at all - I for one welcome constructive immigration and in fact Britain wouldn't be half the place it is today if we hadn't been invaded for 500 years solid and then had immigration for another 200. It is important to try and assimilate a country's culture when you decide to make it your home for lots of reasons. Staying in small isolated groups within a culture and not making any attempts to become more involved in your surrounding can and often does lead to resentment that can spiral into dislike, racial hatred and sometimes violence. This isn't a good state of affairs for anyone and should be avoided - embracing the culture of your new home nation is a good way to do that, and if you love your religion and your own ways and traditions, they won't be destroyed just because you learn to speak English or socialise with white people.
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Don't worry about history! Get rich. People will respect for who you are!
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First off, the fact that it's their own country gives them the right to demand assimilation. Why would you want to live in another country and remain separate from the general population of that country. It makes no sense. Multiculutralism is itself discriminatory. It is also al oad of poop... Who should keep to themselves? The French with the French? Muslims with muslims? What about French muslims? Stick them in their own space because they are different from everyone else? If you move to europe but don't want to intermingle with europeans you are only strengthening the european reason for racism against you. By setting yourself apart you will be discriminating against those people you want to employ you. If that is what you plan, EXPECT discrimination in return. This has to be one of the most racist questions I have seen. You can most certainly marry who you want, live wher you want and how you want, but you must also be ready to accept the consequences of your choices, which you do not seem to want to do. As far as the european looting and plundering......they looted and plundered each other, then moved on to the rest of the world. Realize also the the "colonization" of India was really the wealthy in India selling out the population. India was "conquered" by the East India Company, not the British government. The army of the East India Company was largely Indian commanded be a few British officers. India sold itself out. Don't blame just the "white europeans", blame your own weak greedy leaders who looted and plundered their own people.
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Well, judging from your expressed opinion, I'd say you will not have much fun in Europe. You will say, probably, that you don't want to have fun, you want to earn money and than go back... no, wait, you don't want to go back. You want to go to New Zealand. Are you planing on staying in your "own" culture and not intermingle with people from New Zealand later on? What if you marry an Indian guy and go to New Zealand? Will you not allow your children to play with kids from non-buddhist families? How about school trips? Summer camps? Birthday parties? Physical education? Are you really willing to have your children grow up blinded by what only can be called your narrow-mindedness? Don't think I haven't had contact with Buddhists. I've shared an apartement with a buddhist girl for a year and am still freinds with her. I have nothing against her religion, beliefs, traditions or way of clothing/living/ or diet. At the same time, I've learned a lot about her culture and she learned a lot about my culture. I also have a lot of friends from other countries with different religions. I have friends from the U.S, from Turkey, Poland, Mexico, Greece, Macedonia, Russia and I love them all and if I don't understand something about their way of living, I ASK them. What upsets me, though, is that communication is always a two-way street. If people live in their "ghettos", as you so charmingly put it, they will have no reason and no need to talk in the language of the country they stay in, thus children will start school and not be able to understand their teachers and their classmates, keeping the whole class behind scedule in learning, especially if they live in "Ghettos", as every part of town has a school, and thus "Ghetto schools" suddenly happen, where often 80% or more of students are of an immigrant background. Often no learning is done there anymore because teachers can't communicate with their students. So the native parents take their kids out of that school and rather pay for sending their kids to other schools out of fear that they are held back from finding work or going to university, so the percentage of non-native speakers in those "ghetto-schools" increases even further. In a lot of towns you can also see that the immigrants have badly paid jobs or live on wellfare and are thus unable to support their children much, in a society where cool brands and new technology is a status symbol ( not that I think that is a very good thing, but unfortunately that's the way it is) and they are bullied in school for not having the coolest new mobile phone or the "in" sneakers, and those kids often solve their problems by stealing from shops or robbing other people, often also taking these things away by violence from classmates. Also, if people are raising kids in a foreing country and plan on staying there, shouldn't it be best for the kids to actually be able to take full advantage of all the opportunities they are given? If they don't understand the language and the culture they live in, they will have problems when they want to get a job later on. Who will give people a job when the are not able to communicate with them? Oftern you also run into the problem that if the money-maker of the familiy goes away, dies, has something happen to him, whole families are completely helpless and on top of getting wellfare, getting rent-money, getting all the other things that european countries provide for people who have financial problems, the office also needs to pay a translater. Not only for meetings with the office, but for going to the doctor, going to school appintments, going to Kindergarden and so on and so on and so on. And I'm not talking about one single case, I am talking about one small city of 28,000 people having to pay 7 translators for Russian, Polish, Ukrainien, Turkish... Can you imagine what that costs? If one small city needs 7 translators alone for their wellfare departement, what will the city of Berlin spend on translators? And on crime prevention programs? And on working hours for crime solving? Did you know that there were at least 5 "honor murders" in Germany last year, were muslim (mostly teenage) males shot their sisters/cousins for going out with guys from other ethnic backgrounds, divorcing their abusive husbands or having been left by their husbands? In one case a 15 year old boy shot his 22 year old sister in the head on the street in bright daylight while she was waiting for a bus with her two year old kid. That's what I don't like. And don't get me wrong, I am not very fond of that tradition even if they wouldn't do it in Germany and only in their home countries. And there are wonderful people coming to Germany who are honest, live by the law and learn the language, but unfortunately, they are a tiny percentage of the people who come, and most often they don't want to live in the ghettos. It can't be that people come to a country because they hope to better their living standards by doing so, and than pull down the country they moved to by ignoring the rules. Take the example of Germany. We were pulled and propelled into a war almost 70 years ago by racism and poor economy. After the war, the cities were dead, most young men were dead, the country lay in ruin. In 60 years, people have built a state with beautiful architeture, secure living, clean streets, a low rate of child mortality, good hygene and good medical standards. We are exporting the most goods in the world. We have a very generous welfare plan. But ever since people from eastern Eurpe have poured in after the wall fell, people who never paid into the welfare plan are now taking money out of it. Taxes are rising, prices are rising, healthcare is getting more expensive. Well-paid jobs are getting less and less. People who have jobs are getting frustrated because they have to work long hours, sometimes filling three jobs with only two people and not getting paid accordingly, they need the jobs to be able to support their families, they can't quit. And than they are coming out of ther offices, and their family car was stolen by someone, they get the police, they find out who it was. They can't communicate with him. The state pays an attourney for the thief. And a translator. For every time the thief has to talk to his attorney. They find out he's guilty, but he can't pay the fine, because our thief is living on welfare, because he couldn't get a job. Because he's not talking the language. So than the judge says: "we'll lock him up". In a German prison. On cost of the German people. which is even more expensive than keeping him on wellfare. But: our thief is a nice one. He flees the country and goes back to where he came from, coming back two motnhs later with a different name. Happens thousands of times every year. Whereas, our German car owner has to pay for: his attorney, the towing of the car from where they found it to the police grounds, for the keeping on police grounds and for all the paperwork that is needed to get him back his own car. By the time he paid all of that, he can likely sell his car to go out of this situation even. It's not that we don't like people from other countries and other cultures. But how can we not get frustrated, if so many people get money from the state, and we, as the tax-payers, are slowly getting overtaxed by what is happening to this country and everyday, there are more people coming in, telling us they don't want anything to do with our culture and us, they just want to take a job and make money and leave, telling us that we are racists?
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Does work from home really exist...legitimately?
Does work from home really exist...legitimately?
I have been searching for some time but I have had no luck, actually I have only found fraudulent businesses/scam artists wanting money before anything. Can anyone help me...maybe you have had some success, please refer sites that have worked, I live in South Africa if it makes any difference. Thanks
Other - Careers & Employment - 13 Answers
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yes
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It exists if you create it.
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Well, yes, but it depends on the profession. You can do medical transcription from home, for example, or even web design if you know enough.
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I think YOU are trying to get people to "do business" with you and that YOU are a scammer....
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Yes, but you have to be skilled to do it. IT work you can do from home. Project management you can do from home. Sales you can do from home. Just about everything you can do that does not require your physical presence can be done from home.
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It's doubtful that you'll get what you want. There's always some catch.
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Why do you want to work from home? There are more opportunities by working face to face with others, networking etc.
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Yes, some people do work legitimate professional jobs from home, but they are not easy to come by. Any advertised job that says "work from home" is usually a scam or something really lousy. Most people who work from home and make income are entrepreneurs who run their own business, or people in highly sought after positions in companies where they have basically earned the privilege of "telecommuting."
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I don't think so, unless you start a scam yourself! These jobs remind me of that guy that put an ad in the newspaper ("send me a dollar and I will tell you how to make a hundred") (reply) "Do what I did"! Its hard to know what is real advertisment anymore with all the afflite crap going around! Becarful because some people will try to get you to sign up under their name with thier (coded weblinks) so they can earn money by you signing up or buying a product though their advertisement! Its funny how you see a personal testimonial but it has a click here sign (no weblnk) that takes you straight to the product and if yo look in the web bar at the top you will see a user code at the end of it! even some online high school dimplomia courses are fake scams!
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Be careful here. Check any outfit with the Better Business Bureau at "www.bbb.org" . You can check at the bbb by entering the business's url. While searching, I checked on one website and it had 16 complaints and a rating of F at the bbb. If the bbb has no info about a website, do not deal with it. I have read that 97% of work-at-home business offers are frauds. Your best chance is to start your own business. Here is a article about Home Businesses I bookmarked back in November. Maybe it will help you think up your own ideas. http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/Investing/Extra/call-them-need-based-businesses.aspx
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I know how you feel. I've been searching for a home business as well. A good friend introduced me to a business and I love this business. Check out my website: www.ardysslife.com/cynthiamur
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If you want a real job you will have to actually go to the place of employment and work there. Very few real companies are going to hire a stranger to do work for them with no training or supervision.,. Most people who work from home either work for themselves, or have worked for a company for many years, and then had a personal situation arise that caused them to need to work from home. If they were trusted long-term employees, and if their jobs could be done remotely, the companies made accommodations.
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You can only obtain legitimate work from home positions from brick and mortar companies. You want to send your resume out to companies hiring for positions you are qualified for, but include in your resume that you have a home office and you wish to work remotely. Include how you have your home office set up and what equipment you already have in order for you to perform your job. These jobs are just going to advertised as jobs, they would not promote them as "work at home" because they would hear from too many unqualified people.
I have been searching for some time but I have had no luck, actually I have only found fraudulent businesses/scam artists wanting money before anything. Can anyone help me...maybe you have had some success, please refer sites that have worked, I live in South Africa if it makes any difference. Thanks
Other - Careers & Employment - 13 Answers
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yes
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It exists if you create it.
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Well, yes, but it depends on the profession. You can do medical transcription from home, for example, or even web design if you know enough.
4 :
I think YOU are trying to get people to "do business" with you and that YOU are a scammer....
5 :
Yes, but you have to be skilled to do it. IT work you can do from home. Project management you can do from home. Sales you can do from home. Just about everything you can do that does not require your physical presence can be done from home.
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It's doubtful that you'll get what you want. There's always some catch.
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Why do you want to work from home? There are more opportunities by working face to face with others, networking etc.
8 :
Yes, some people do work legitimate professional jobs from home, but they are not easy to come by. Any advertised job that says "work from home" is usually a scam or something really lousy. Most people who work from home and make income are entrepreneurs who run their own business, or people in highly sought after positions in companies where they have basically earned the privilege of "telecommuting."
9 :
I don't think so, unless you start a scam yourself! These jobs remind me of that guy that put an ad in the newspaper ("send me a dollar and I will tell you how to make a hundred") (reply) "Do what I did"! Its hard to know what is real advertisment anymore with all the afflite crap going around! Becarful because some people will try to get you to sign up under their name with thier (coded weblinks) so they can earn money by you signing up or buying a product though their advertisement! Its funny how you see a personal testimonial but it has a click here sign (no weblnk) that takes you straight to the product and if yo look in the web bar at the top you will see a user code at the end of it! even some online high school dimplomia courses are fake scams!
10 :
Be careful here. Check any outfit with the Better Business Bureau at "www.bbb.org" . You can check at the bbb by entering the business's url. While searching, I checked on one website and it had 16 complaints and a rating of F at the bbb. If the bbb has no info about a website, do not deal with it. I have read that 97% of work-at-home business offers are frauds. Your best chance is to start your own business. Here is a article about Home Businesses I bookmarked back in November. Maybe it will help you think up your own ideas. http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/Investing/Extra/call-them-need-based-businesses.aspx
11 :
I know how you feel. I've been searching for a home business as well. A good friend introduced me to a business and I love this business. Check out my website: www.ardysslife.com/cynthiamur
12 :
If you want a real job you will have to actually go to the place of employment and work there. Very few real companies are going to hire a stranger to do work for them with no training or supervision.,. Most people who work from home either work for themselves, or have worked for a company for many years, and then had a personal situation arise that caused them to need to work from home. If they were trusted long-term employees, and if their jobs could be done remotely, the companies made accommodations.
13 :
You can only obtain legitimate work from home positions from brick and mortar companies. You want to send your resume out to companies hiring for positions you are qualified for, but include in your resume that you have a home office and you wish to work remotely. Include how you have your home office set up and what equipment you already have in order for you to perform your job. These jobs are just going to advertised as jobs, they would not promote them as "work at home" because they would hear from too many unqualified people.
Thursday, June 7, 2012
HOMEWORK HELP!!!!! PLEASE HELP OUT..?
HOMEWORK HELP!!!!! PLEASE HELP OUT..?
1. Which is not a factor contributing to poverty in Africa? * long periods of drought and desertification * a sudden decline in unemployment * drastic increase in population leading to a shortage in available resources * an inability to establish a diverse industrial economy 2. People living in this country, on average, make the least amount of money. * Angola * South Africa * Algeria * Chad 3. Which of the following countries would most likely bring in the most per capita income compared to other countries? * Zambia * Botswana * Algeria * Chad 4. Nigeria's economy would weaken tremendously if the price on this exported resource dropped. * oil * lumber * sugar * coal 5. Some African countries' economies are negatively influenced by * an overdependence on a single resource. * an overdependence on a variety of natural resources. * the lack of natural resources. * an overdependence on industrial exports. 6. Each of the following statements explains why the rates of contracting malaria and AIDS are extremely high except * the cost of medical treatment is unaffordable. * the price of drugs is too high for the consumer. * the public health sector is deteriorating. * too much money is being spent on consumable goods. 7. The value of trade is extremely high in * Sudan. * Nigeria. * Botswana. * Chad. 8. An African economist living in Mali between 2002 and 2003 would most likely be * impressed with the value generated through commercial services. * satisfied, although the value of traded items could be slightly higher. * dissatisfied with the wealth generated from trade. * satisfied with the country’s economy. 9. Which country is in the most debt in regards to generated government revenue? * Egypt * Botswana * Chad *Zambia 10. Which statement is true regarding Africa’s poverty issue? * Sub-Saharan countires are in a higher income bracket than many of the southern African countries. * Many of the southern African countries are in a higher income bracket than many of the Sub-Saharan countries. * Sub-Saharan countries generally fare better than North African countries. * A majority of Africa’s countries are in the higher income bracket.
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1. Answer 4 2. Answer 4 3. Answer 2 4. Answer 3 5. Answer 3 6. Answer 2 7. Answer 2 8. Answer 4 9. Answer 3 10. Answer 2
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for one the answer might be four (the fourth astric)
1. Which is not a factor contributing to poverty in Africa? * long periods of drought and desertification * a sudden decline in unemployment * drastic increase in population leading to a shortage in available resources * an inability to establish a diverse industrial economy 2. People living in this country, on average, make the least amount of money. * Angola * South Africa * Algeria * Chad 3. Which of the following countries would most likely bring in the most per capita income compared to other countries? * Zambia * Botswana * Algeria * Chad 4. Nigeria's economy would weaken tremendously if the price on this exported resource dropped. * oil * lumber * sugar * coal 5. Some African countries' economies are negatively influenced by * an overdependence on a single resource. * an overdependence on a variety of natural resources. * the lack of natural resources. * an overdependence on industrial exports. 6. Each of the following statements explains why the rates of contracting malaria and AIDS are extremely high except * the cost of medical treatment is unaffordable. * the price of drugs is too high for the consumer. * the public health sector is deteriorating. * too much money is being spent on consumable goods. 7. The value of trade is extremely high in * Sudan. * Nigeria. * Botswana. * Chad. 8. An African economist living in Mali between 2002 and 2003 would most likely be * impressed with the value generated through commercial services. * satisfied, although the value of traded items could be slightly higher. * dissatisfied with the wealth generated from trade. * satisfied with the country’s economy. 9. Which country is in the most debt in regards to generated government revenue? * Egypt * Botswana * Chad *Zambia 10. Which statement is true regarding Africa’s poverty issue? * Sub-Saharan countires are in a higher income bracket than many of the southern African countries. * Many of the southern African countries are in a higher income bracket than many of the Sub-Saharan countries. * Sub-Saharan countries generally fare better than North African countries. * A majority of Africa’s countries are in the higher income bracket.
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for one the answer might be four (the fourth astric)
Friday, June 1, 2012
my husband abandoned my daughter and i like 8 years ago he makes good money but will not give me any what do i?
my husband abandoned my daughter and i like 8 years ago he makes good money but will not give me any what do i?
He has a great job at Alcatel-Lucent but will not send us any money. we are still married but he wont give me a divorce either. now he is in South Africa, how the flip can i find out about his bank accounts etc? I am not a gold digger, just been scraping by, barely. I have a 10 year old daughter, she hasn'tt even seen him in since she was 2 years old. Any input and ideas are awesome, since i do not have the funds to find out this info without your help. Thank you.
Marriage & Divorce - 11 Answers
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get a job?...
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First off you can file for divorce. You can exert presser through the courts He has abandoned the family. Additionally he has not continued to uphold his vows. An attorney can help you with this mess. And he will take your husbands money not yours.
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The state department has agreements with South Africa for enforcing child support. Go here: http://www.angelfire.com/biz2/support4kids/abroadforuscitizens.html
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he is a selfish greedy man find out were he is and go to child support agency (csa) you will be able to find the number on the internet. he sounds like he is also tying to control your life as he knows if you have no money then you will have no life i cant believe let alone not pay for his child but not even see her it makes me sick get what you are owed every penny its the least your daughter deserves. im sorry this has happened to you i no how you feel my ex husband done the same thing but i made sure i reported him and he payed for his daughter. its his loss that he is to selfish to see his beautiful child in the end he will be the only one sorry and hurt and did you no you have more rights as your married so see a solicitor aswel to find out your rights if you cant afford one the internet will tell you on gov.org.uk good look.
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You are not a gold digger he is a dead beat dad and get a lawyer to make him step up and be a father. He is the gold digger for depriving his daughter of support. Trust me a good lawyer will send a letter to his company and garnish his wages no matter where he is. Dead beat dads are bad news all over this planet!
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Call a lawyer. What does your divorce decree say?
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Call the police and get them onto this. At least there'll be a paper trail. Then file for a divorce. Ask the cops. They can give you the resources.
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lawsuit go to court 4 child support
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from your situation I am sure you are not in USA or in any developed country as a matter of fact. first thing you shd do is to file for divorce and that will take care of child support also. but have a good counselling session with your lawyer before ask him what can be consequences of yoru law suit , if the law of your country give full rights to father and he can take her away then forget about everything. keep your daughter , find a job and forget him and his money. your child's custody with u is more important that that of child support.
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I can't believe you let 8 years pass and didn't get child support. I guess you really can't get any if he is out of the country unless he is military. But, you should've hired an attorney years ago. If you don't have the money they can make him reimburse you the fees. Why sit around for such a long time and do nothing?
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Get a lawyer, get a divorce, get him put on child support.
He has a great job at Alcatel-Lucent but will not send us any money. we are still married but he wont give me a divorce either. now he is in South Africa, how the flip can i find out about his bank accounts etc? I am not a gold digger, just been scraping by, barely. I have a 10 year old daughter, she hasn'tt even seen him in since she was 2 years old. Any input and ideas are awesome, since i do not have the funds to find out this info without your help. Thank you.
Marriage & Divorce - 11 Answers
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get a job?...
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First off you can file for divorce. You can exert presser through the courts He has abandoned the family. Additionally he has not continued to uphold his vows. An attorney can help you with this mess. And he will take your husbands money not yours.
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The state department has agreements with South Africa for enforcing child support. Go here: http://www.angelfire.com/biz2/support4kids/abroadforuscitizens.html
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he is a selfish greedy man find out were he is and go to child support agency (csa) you will be able to find the number on the internet. he sounds like he is also tying to control your life as he knows if you have no money then you will have no life i cant believe let alone not pay for his child but not even see her it makes me sick get what you are owed every penny its the least your daughter deserves. im sorry this has happened to you i no how you feel my ex husband done the same thing but i made sure i reported him and he payed for his daughter. its his loss that he is to selfish to see his beautiful child in the end he will be the only one sorry and hurt and did you no you have more rights as your married so see a solicitor aswel to find out your rights if you cant afford one the internet will tell you on gov.org.uk good look.
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You are not a gold digger he is a dead beat dad and get a lawyer to make him step up and be a father. He is the gold digger for depriving his daughter of support. Trust me a good lawyer will send a letter to his company and garnish his wages no matter where he is. Dead beat dads are bad news all over this planet!
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Call a lawyer. What does your divorce decree say?
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Call the police and get them onto this. At least there'll be a paper trail. Then file for a divorce. Ask the cops. They can give you the resources.
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lawsuit go to court 4 child support
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from your situation I am sure you are not in USA or in any developed country as a matter of fact. first thing you shd do is to file for divorce and that will take care of child support also. but have a good counselling session with your lawyer before ask him what can be consequences of yoru law suit , if the law of your country give full rights to father and he can take her away then forget about everything. keep your daughter , find a job and forget him and his money. your child's custody with u is more important that that of child support.
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I can't believe you let 8 years pass and didn't get child support. I guess you really can't get any if he is out of the country unless he is military. But, you should've hired an attorney years ago. If you don't have the money they can make him reimburse you the fees. Why sit around for such a long time and do nothing?
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Get a lawyer, get a divorce, get him put on child support.
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