my husband abandoned my daughter and i like 8 years ago he makes good money but will not give me any what do i?
He has a great job at Alcatel-Lucent but will not send us any money. we are still married but he wont give me a divorce either. now he is in South Africa, how the flip can i find out about his bank accounts etc? I am not a gold digger, just been scraping by, barely. I have a 10 year old daughter, she hasn'tt even seen him in since she was 2 years old. Any input and ideas are awesome, since i do not have the funds to find out this info without your help. Thank you.
Marriage & Divorce - 11 Answers
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get a job?...
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First off you can file for divorce. You can exert presser through the courts He has abandoned the family. Additionally he has not continued to uphold his vows. An attorney can help you with this mess. And he will take your husbands money not yours.
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The state department has agreements with South Africa for enforcing child support. Go here: http://www.angelfire.com/biz2/support4kids/abroadforuscitizens.html
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he is a selfish greedy man find out were he is and go to child support agency (csa) you will be able to find the number on the internet. he sounds like he is also tying to control your life as he knows if you have no money then you will have no life i cant believe let alone not pay for his child but not even see her it makes me sick get what you are owed every penny its the least your daughter deserves. im sorry this has happened to you i no how you feel my ex husband done the same thing but i made sure i reported him and he payed for his daughter. its his loss that he is to selfish to see his beautiful child in the end he will be the only one sorry and hurt and did you no you have more rights as your married so see a solicitor aswel to find out your rights if you cant afford one the internet will tell you on gov.org.uk good look.
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You are not a gold digger he is a dead beat dad and get a lawyer to make him step up and be a father. He is the gold digger for depriving his daughter of support. Trust me a good lawyer will send a letter to his company and garnish his wages no matter where he is. Dead beat dads are bad news all over this planet!
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Call a lawyer. What does your divorce decree say?
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Call the police and get them onto this. At least there'll be a paper trail. Then file for a divorce. Ask the cops. They can give you the resources.
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lawsuit go to court 4 child support
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from your situation I am sure you are not in USA or in any developed country as a matter of fact. first thing you shd do is to file for divorce and that will take care of child support also. but have a good counselling session with your lawyer before ask him what can be consequences of yoru law suit , if the law of your country give full rights to father and he can take her away then forget about everything. keep your daughter , find a job and forget him and his money. your child's custody with u is more important that that of child support.
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I can't believe you let 8 years pass and didn't get child support. I guess you really can't get any if he is out of the country unless he is military. But, you should've hired an attorney years ago. If you don't have the money they can make him reimburse you the fees. Why sit around for such a long time and do nothing?
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Get a lawyer, get a divorce, get him put on child support.
